The value of people’s unique lived experience of mental illness (including psychosis), professional treatment and recovery as a valid form of knowledge remains relatively unexplored and under-utilised by mental health professionals, policy makers and by those seeking help. Mutual peer support remains a largely untapped resource, often ignored and distanced from mainstream services. In this reflective perspective article, I share my own experiences as a service user, spouse, close relative and brother-in-law and also as someone who worked for many years in mutual peer support and in the area of recovery. I reflect on the findings of my doctoral narrative research which focused on the role played by Grow Mental Health, Ireland’s largest network of mutual peer support groups, in recovery from a wide range of diagnoses. The main finding from this research suggested that recovery can be experienced as a re-enchantment with life and that mental illness can act as a gateway to mental health rather than be experienced as a form of (often life-long) disability. In the discussion I try and envisage what a recovery oriented mental health system might look like, and what changes would need to be introduced. Despite such a long personal history of dealing with mental illness and witnessing many different levels of recovery, I still have much to learn about mental illness and recovery. I also welcome many recent changes made within the system and indeed this special edition of the journal.