Book contents
- Autobiographical Memory and the Life Story
- Reviews
- Autobiographical Memory and the Life Story
- Copyright page
- Contents
- Figures
- Tables
- Contributors
- Chapter 1 Introduction
- Part I How Research on Autobiographical Memory Contrasts with and Integrates the Life Story Approach
- Part II How the Environment of Autobiographical Memory Shapes the Life Story
- Part III How Deviating Autobiographical Memories Shape the Life Story
- Chapter 11 Could Life Care Contexts Impact the Adolescent’s Life Narrative Coherence?
- Chapter 12 Narrative Coherence and Incoherence
- Chapter 13 Biographies in the Name of God
- Chapter 14 Cultural Life Scripts and Life Story Events of Cis-Heterosexual and LGBQ Individuals
- Chapter 15 Narratives, Perspective-Taking, and Emotion Regulation
- Chapter 16 Life Narratives and Psychopathology
- Chapter 17 Life Stories Are Culturally Mediated and Socially Constructed
- Index
- References
Chapter 15 - Narratives, Perspective-Taking, and Emotion Regulation
Obstacles and Boosters to Cope with Child Maltreatment
from Part III - How Deviating Autobiographical Memories Shape the Life Story
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 20 November 2025
Book contents
- Autobiographical Memory and the Life Story
- Reviews
- Autobiographical Memory and the Life Story
- Copyright page
- Contents
- Figures
- Tables
- Contributors
- Chapter 1 Introduction
- Part I How Research on Autobiographical Memory Contrasts with and Integrates the Life Story Approach
- Part II How the Environment of Autobiographical Memory Shapes the Life Story
- Part III How Deviating Autobiographical Memories Shape the Life Story
- Chapter 11 Could Life Care Contexts Impact the Adolescent’s Life Narrative Coherence?
- Chapter 12 Narrative Coherence and Incoherence
- Chapter 13 Biographies in the Name of God
- Chapter 14 Cultural Life Scripts and Life Story Events of Cis-Heterosexual and LGBQ Individuals
- Chapter 15 Narratives, Perspective-Taking, and Emotion Regulation
- Chapter 16 Life Narratives and Psychopathology
- Chapter 17 Life Stories Are Culturally Mediated and Socially Constructed
- Index
- References
Summary
The extent to which people succeed in integrating several perspectives in their narratives of an emotionally charged event suggests how well the narrator has coped with it. Through temporal and social perspective taking, narratives promote emotion regulation and help making sense of experience. The present work will discuss the close entanglement of emotion regulation, perspective taking, and narrative. First, we will discuss how adverse childhood experiences and interpersonal potentially traumatic experiences during childhood harm the development of emotion regulation and perspective taking skills. Second, we will highlight how this reflects in emotion and trauma narratives of children and adults who have gone through child maltreatment. Finally, we will argue that narratives not only reflect the extent to which a person copes with the event narrated but also promote coping itself, by restructuring the autobiographical memory due to perspective taking and emotion regulation in an interpersonal elicitation context.
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- Autobiographical Memory and the Life StoryNew Perspectives on Narrative Identity, pp. 332 - 348Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2025
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